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15 Signs Of Male Insecurity That Turn Women Off

In this video, we are going to shed some light on the signs of male insecurity that turn women off. There is a difference between being insecure about something, and being an insecure person. An insecure man can be rich, poor, short, tall, attractive or otherwise. He’s the type of guy that seeks an unhealthy level of validation and attention from the outside world. Most insecure men aren’t even aware of their insecure behaviors. And those that are aware, are much too ashamed to admit it. This type of man can easily start to control his partner’s actions, restrict her freedom, and become abusive.

It’s important to recognize the signs of male insecurity that turn women off

An insecure man tends to confuse his unhealthy attachment as love and he always seeks validation. In a relationship, a man who is insecure will avoid confrontation, particularly in an argument or heated discussion. This kind of man gets jealous when a woman spends even a little time with her friends, including her female friends. If a woman is happy and loving toward him, he will be in a good mood. If she’s frazzled, trying to juggle a thousand things, and doesn’t have time to constantly assure him that she’s in love with him, he’ll be sad and depressed.

An insecure guy wants to know a woman’s every move

He gets angry when she accidentally omits something and he later finds out about it. It is a definite sign of insecurity if he constantly keeps asking her about how she spends her time, places she goes to, and the people she talks to. This is the man that wants to see his partner every day and gets upset if she has other responsibilities that take her away from him. He has a way of making her feel guilty if she needs to work, run errands, or meet a friend and can’t go out with him. It doesn’t take long for a woman to start feeling overwhelmed with his obsessive attention.

Not all insecure men exhibit the same signs of male insecurity

In fact, some men, particularly the ones that recognize their insecurities, have learned how to hide those feelings. Nevertheless, when a man is insecure, it can put a serious strain on the relationship, making it difficult to last in the long run. These behaviors will definitely turn women off.