Here are some signs he’s just not that into you – because it sucks when you feel confused by a guy. Besides, it’s better to know sooner rather than later, anyway. So if you’re wondering whether the guy you’re interested in is in it for the long haul or planning on ditching you at the next turn, pay attention to the following.
Here are some signs he’s just not that into you
Women are wired to be pursued, and men are wired to pursue. If you aren’t being pursued by the guy in question, it’s a red flag that he isn’t as invested as you are. If you’re the one always initiating contact, and he leaves you waiting by the phone, then he obviously doesn’t respect you or your time.
He makes no effort to be part of your life
A guy who is excited about being with you will be excited to introduce you to the people who are important to him. But, if he only wants to hang out solo, and never wants to hang out with your family or friends, and his family and friends are still unaware of your existence – know that he doesn’t have any deep feelings for you. You’re just a girlfriend of convenience to him and that’s all.
He refuses to be seen in public with you
If you both have only ever hung out in a private place, you two were never a thing. Not taking you out in public, especially during the daytime is one of the biggest signs he’s not that into you. This means that he does not want to be seen with you. And likely, he doesn’t even see you as dating material.
You’re Having Doubts
The great thing about most men is that they can be very straightforward. When a guy is into you, it’s hard to miss the signs he likes you. And if they don’t like you, they can also be painfully blunt about it. However, if you still find yourself trying to decipher every little gesture, then his signs are obviously not clear enough. Doubt in itself tells you that he’s not going the extra mile to make sure his feelings or intentions are obvious.
He ghosted you
Did you hooked up with a guy, and he never ever responds to any of your text messages or calls? Then you should just delete his number and move on. No, his phone didn’t fall into a toilet and break… Getting ghosted by a guy has to be one of the biggest signs he’s just not that into you!