In this video, we are going to shed some light on how to talk to people and show you different ways to start a conversation with anyone. Of course, it’s not enough to know how to skillfully strike up a conversation with someone! You have to be able to add interesting information and keep the other person engaged. While some people are naturals, others could certainly benefit from some help.
That’s why we put together this handy guide on how to talk to people and start a conversation with anyone!
Have you ever met someone who just complained about everything? It’s annoying, right? On the flip side, someone who remains positive, and exhibits a genuine and open outlook on their surroundings, seems to naturally draw people in. Of course, staying positive is easier said than done. You need to work toward being very self-aware and monitor how you react to various situations.
Don’t hold back your enthusiasm
Your first inclination may be to suppress your energy and enthusiasm. You’d want to hold your hands in your pockets when you want to gesture and generally stay ‘cool’. However, people will typically react more positively when you show enthusiasm through hand gestures. You can do this with facial expressions, and speaking with different tones and volumes. This makes a conversation more interesting.
Don’t assume people will agree with you
Research on social psychology shows that many of us engage in the “assumed similarity bias.” But, it’s not safe to conclude that just because you are opposed to a political party, that the person you’re talking to is, as well. If you just assume that everyone thinks and feels the way you do, it’s likely you’ll get started on the wrong foot – and end up with it in your mouth.
Know when not to talk
Sometimes silence can feel awkward. Your natural inclination may be to fill that silence with chit-chat. However, there are times that it is best to stay silent. If they someone is giving you obvious social cues signaling that they are not interested in talking to you, you should find another way to amuse yourself. If you learn how to read people on sight, you can pick up on these cues with more ease.
So, if you want to know how to talk to people, prepare yourself by watching this video on different ways to start a conversation, and you’ll be fine.